We all have fantasies. Some less and some more demanding. If the idea of tying up your partner for a little bondage makes you instantly hot, but you don’t know where to start then this blog post is for you!

 

Bringing a bit of bondage in the bedroom can be confusing and intimidating, especially if it’s your first time. But, when you get how to do it, it’s going to be a lot of fun!

Agreement

First and foremost, make sure you both agree on trying something new like this. If your partner does not feel comfortable about it, then set the bondage a part or maybe give your partner some more time.
But if you both are into it and ready to give it a go, the awesome! Let’s get started!

Bondage is all about giving consent. That’s why before starting to do anything you must be crystal clear about what each of you wants or… doesn’t want. Make sure you will have a talk and understand each other’s needs and boundaries. However, avoid being too serious or you risk making the whole thing creepy rather than hot. Communicate easily and with intimacy. Talking about your fantasies can be extremely hot and also the perfect foreplay for a damn hot bondage experience.
Is everything clear? Then let’s go!

Equipment

Now that you both agree on what you want, you may have an idea of the equipment you need. There are tons of different gadgets out there and choosing can be complicated. At your fist time, best thing to do is to make it simple. Avoid complicated rope tricks (just yet!) and instead opt for a scarf, stockings or a pair of fluffy wrists. Whatever you want really, but make sure you both will feel comfortable and confident, to ensure the experience being pleasant.

Here is a list of equipment thought for you:

Handcuffs
When thinking of bondage, handcuffs are the first thing that comes in mind. Handcuffs are a must for your bondage kit! Especially when you’re a beginner handcuffs are the easiest way to start your experience and enjoy bondage with your partner.

Ball Gag
Ball gags are the most commonly known type of sex gag. Perfect to create the right power play scene, where the submissive partner will have to wear it let the dominant partner being in complete power.

Tickler
A tickler is perfect to tease, tickle and whip your partner into a frenzy with a sensation tickler.

Sex Swing
Fancy trying new positions but don’t know how? Then the sex swing is the one for you! A sex swing will literally elevate you or your partner, enabling you to enjoy a complex position without pulling a single muscle!

Obviously, there are many other that you could use, but for now give these a try and you won’t regret it! Have fun!

 

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