Mastering cunnilingus is something all men should aspire to do.

 

Going down on your woman is clearly a massive turn on for her and can bring lots of fun in your relationship. The sad part of the story is that, often, oral sex for women receives less importance than going down on a man, making cunnilingus less common and more, let’s say… “exceptional” in most of the cases.

Cunnilingus has clearly an undeserved reputation, which make its practising tricky and sometimes unpleasant for both partners. For many going down at their partner with a vulva with the attempt to make her come feels like a destination at the end of a labyrinth. No indications, no shortcuts. Lost! Which explains why most men try to avoid it or if not giving her the biggest of the frustrations. Now. If you want to put an end to this tragedy and give your partner the best orgasmic experience ever, this blog is for you. Keep on reading, be prepared cause after this your cunnilingus skills will definitely blow her sock off!

First of all: Put her at her ease!

There is always a reason behind an orgasm-less sex. In most of the cases, being self-conscious and uncomfortable is the main barrier for her to reach orgasm. Quite often she may worry about how she’s looking down there and whether you like the view rather than lying back and letting you do your job. So, make sure you’ll be fully enthusiastic and show that you are enjoying it!

Warm up!

When you go down on her, don’t pretend her to reach orgasm before at least 25 mins! On average women reach orgasm between 25 to 40 minutes. So, don’t get overwhelmed if she doesn’t scream your name after 5 mins. Instead, be aware that you’re going to play with her vag for quite long. Make yourself comfortable and don’t worry about changing position, unless she doesn’t give you the consent, obviously.

Body language

Paying attention to her body language is the best way to understand whether she is enjoying it or not. But if you’re unsure don’t hesitate to ask whether she likes it or not. Let her tell you what she likes and what she doesn’t, and you’ll be with no doubts on track!

Turn it up

An absolute silence and no sounds from you will make her feel awkward enough to struggle orgasming. Moaning against her vagina will definitely increase her stimulation and will feel amazing on her vulva. So, make sure you will give a sign when you’re down there!

Eye contact

She will probably keep her eyes closed most of the time, but looking up at her sometimes, is a good way to “communicate” and let her know that you are loving what you are doing. However, don’t exaggerate, otherwise, she may feel self-conscious rather than relaxed.

Now, let’s get to the point and see what exactly you need to do once your head is between her legs. Vaginas come di different shapes, colours and sizes. In the same way, the way they reach orgasm can vary among every woman. However, if there is one certain thing, is that it’s not all about the clitoris, even though the majority of women orgasm easily with a clitoris stimulation.

Start with the siders

Before eating her pussy or hitting right at the clitoris, make sure you will play with some other part of her body to intensify her sensations. Some major erogenous zones are ears, nipples, fingers, the inner tights, and the lower stomach and… The commissure, which is the area right above the clitoris. Once you’ve completely turned her on, it will be finally the moment to let the game begin.

Once you are down there, start with a broad and gentle pressure of your tongue. Then from there, you can start playing with your tongue in many different ways and paying lots of attention to the magic button, namely Clitoris. The clitoris is certainly the most stimulating part of the female body. As small as it is, it results to be only the tip on an iceberg of where the female pleasure lies. There is, in fact, a lot that you can do to give her the best orgasm ever without getting stock only on the clitoris.

For example:
• Go up and down with your tongue, and make sure you touch the clitoris each time you reach the top!
• Make clockwise circles, as well as, contraclockwise. It is a great way to stimulate all her vagina.
• Don’t forget the sides! Licking or kissing her vag side to side is another easy way to drive her crazy. Just remember to maintain a gentle and delicate touch.
• Lightly suck her clit, she will absolutely love it!
• Insert your tongue inside her vagina. At this point she’ll probably grab your head a won’t let it go any soon!

As mentioned before, cunnilingus isn’t a one-size-fits-all game and varies between each woman. Make sure, you will avoid being monotonous, try to switch things up and experiment with different pressures and rhythms to find what feels good for her.

O! She’s coming!

When she is close to come, there is one single thing you should be doing:
KEEP GOING! Don’t change the rhythm or position and don’t let her excitement causing you going faster or harder (unless she asks for it!) because that may actually ruin the pleasant movement and sensations you had established.

Once you’re sure she came gently stop and give her the chance to settle back and cool down before taking any other action. Let her know how much you enjoyed tasting her beautiful body and wait for the deserved pay back!

Clap Clap! Congratulations you are now a Cunnilingus master now 😛

 

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