{"id":7492,"date":"2018-01-19T09:54:25","date_gmt":"2018-01-19T08:54:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/fr\/?p=7492"},"modified":"2018-01-19T09:54:25","modified_gmt":"2018-01-19T08:54:25","slug":"le-benching-la-nouvelle-goujaterie-2-0","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/fr\/le-benching-la-nouvelle-goujaterie-2-0\/","title":{"rendered":"Le benching : la nouvelle goujaterie 2.0 !"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n<h3>La tendance est \u00e0 la virtualisation des rencontres et des relations. Et depuis quelques ann\u00e9es, de nombreux mots font leur apparition dans le dictionnaire 2.0. Ils d\u00e9finissent les diff\u00e9rentes pratiques r\u00e9pandues sur les sites et applications de rencontres. Parmi eux, le benching.<\/h3>\n<h4><strong>Qu&rsquo;est-ce que c&rsquo;est ?<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Le benching vient du terme \u00ab\u00a0banc des rempla\u00e7ants\u00a0\u00bb en anglais. Cela consiste \u00e0 faire miroiter quelqu&rsquo;un \u00e0 d\u00e9faut d&rsquo;avoir trouv\u00e9 mieux. A la fa\u00e7on des joueurs de foot, vous faites partie de l&rsquo;\u00e9quipe mais vous \u00eates toujours rel\u00e9gu\u00e9e sur le banc de touche. Une situation loin d&rsquo;\u00eatre agr\u00e9able&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Vous vous \u00eates rencontr\u00e9s, il vous a plu, vous pensez lui plaire et vous envisagez une belle histoire, mais rien ne semble se concr\u00e9tiser. Un jour il vous envoie des mots gentils, ajoute des likes \u00e0 vos photos Instagram et vous propose une rencontre, le suivant il vous ignore compl\u00e8tement et annule votre rendez-vous. Il vous relance et disparait sans explications, vous laissant dans l&rsquo;attente et l&rsquo;incompr\u00e9hension.<\/p>\n<p>Le bencheur a cette f\u00e2cheuse habitude de garder plusieurs conqu\u00eates sous le coude, afin d&rsquo;\u00e9viter de se retrouver seul. Vous ne lui plaisez pas vraiment, mais \u00e0 d\u00e9faut d&rsquo;avoir trouv\u00e9 mieux, un peu d&rsquo;affection de votre part ne lui fait pas de mal. Pas tr\u00e8s classe.<\/p>\n<p>Une pratique qui n&rsquo;est pas nouvelle mais qui semble se r\u00e9pandre avec la virtualisation et la multiplication des rencontres.<\/p>\n<h4><strong>Comment agir face au benching ?<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p>Si vous avez le moindre doute et que vous pensez avoir affaire \u00e0 un bencheur, ne perdez pas de temps et fuyez cette situation toxique. Ce type de relation ne vous apportera rien d&rsquo;autre que des faux espoirs et des d\u00e9sillusions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A lire \u00e9galement :<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/fr\/le-firedooring-la-tendance-dating\/\">Le firedooring, la tendance dating qui nous aga\u00e7e !<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>La tendance est \u00e0 la virtualisation des rencontres et des relations. 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