{"id":7298,"date":"2017-11-20T15:35:13","date_gmt":"2017-11-20T14:35:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/fr\/?p=7298"},"modified":"2017-11-20T15:35:13","modified_gmt":"2017-11-20T14:35:13","slug":"le-stashing-ou-la-relation-non-assumee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/fr\/le-stashing-ou-la-relation-non-assumee\/","title":{"rendered":"Le stashing ou la relation non assum\u00e9e"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Depuis quelques ann\u00e9es, de nombreux mots font leur apparition dans le dictionnaire urbain et d\u00e9finissent les diff\u00e9rentes pratiques r\u00e9pandues dans les domaines de la rencontre et des relations amoureuses. Parmi eux, le stashing.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Qu’est-ce que c’est ? <\/strong><\/h4>\n

Le stashing (qui vient de \u00ab\u00a0stash\u00a0\u00bb, signifiant cacher, mettre de c\u00f4t\u00e9 en anglais) c’est le fait de cacher sa relation amoureuse \u00e0 son entourage et de maintenir son partenaire \u00e0 l’\u00e9cart de sa vie.<\/p>\n

En couple depuis plusieurs mois, votre partenaire connait vos amis, a rencontr\u00e9 votre famille et partage vos selfies sur Instagram. Le bonheur ? Presque. Car de son c\u00f4t\u00e9, rien de tout \u00e7a. Vous n’avez pas rencontr\u00e9 sa bande de copains, encore moins sa famille et lorsqu’il vous propose un rendez-vous, c’est en t\u00eate-\u00e0-t\u00eate un point c’est tout. Pas de doute, vous \u00eates victime de stashing. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Une pratique qui ruine la confiance en soi<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Dans les premiers temps, ce comportement est compr\u00e9hensible. En effet, pour se prot\u00e9ger et \u00e9viter de trop s’investir sentimentalement au cas o\u00f9 la relation ne fonctionnerait pas, certaines personnes pr\u00e9f\u00e8rent garder leur relation pour eux. Mais lorsque l’histoire s’inscrit sur la dur\u00e9e, ce comportement est particuli\u00e8rement nocif pour celui ou celle qui le subit. Petit \u00e0 petit, le partenaire non assum\u00e9 se retrouve dans l’incompr\u00e9hension. Il se demande s’il est \u00e0 la hauteur et se perd entre le comportement affectueux de son partenaire et la distance impos\u00e9e avec son entourage et sa vie.<\/p>\n

Que faire face au stashing ?<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Pour \u00e9viter ce genre de situation, une seule chose \u00e0 faire : en parler ! Il est tr\u00e8s important de communiquer avec son partenaire pour comprendre cette distance. Selon son entourage et sa situation familiale, il est possible qu’il cherche simplement \u00e0 prot\u00e9ger votre relation. Dans ce cas, il lui faut peut-\u00eatre un peu de temps. Mais s’il se d\u00e9robe et nie en bloc, il n’y a qu’une seule chose \u00e0 faire : fuir cette relation toxique.<\/p>\n

A lire \u00e9galement :<\/strong> Le ghosting, la nouvelle rupture 2.0<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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