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Vous \u00eates inscrit(e) sur un site ou une app de rencontres ? Il est fort probable que vous ayez d\u00e9j\u00e0 \u00e9t\u00e9 confront\u00e9(e) au submarining. Ah bon ? Mais qu’est-ce que c’est ?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Il y a quelques mois, le ghosting hantait toute la sph\u00e8re 2.0 des rencontres. Aujourd’hui, c’est au tour du submarining de faire parler de lui sur les sites de dating. Le terme submarining provient de l’anglais \u00ab\u00a0submarine\u00a0\u00bb qui veut dire \u00ab\u00a0sous-marin\u00a0\u00bb. Le nom vous para\u00eet peut-\u00eatre un peu tordu ? Pourtant il s’agit d’une pratique tr\u00e8s s\u00e9rieuse.<\/p>\n

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Une disparition\u00a0brutale<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Vous faites une jolie rencontre sur un site ou une app de rencontres. Un lien se cr\u00e9\u00e9, la personne vous semble r\u00e9ceptive, vous envisagez une rencontre. Et alors que vous imaginez une histoire possible entre vous… plus rien<\/strong>. Votre coup de c\u0153ur semble avoir disparu de la surface (virtuelle) de la terre. D\u00e9\u00e7u(e), d\u00e9contenanc\u00e9(e),\u00a0 vous ravalez vos probl\u00e8mes d’ego et repartez \u00e0 la recherche de celui ou celle qui vous correspond. Quand soudain, alors que vous commenciez \u00e0 peine \u00e0 l’oublier, votre flirt virtuel disparu refait surface comme si de rien n’\u00e9tait. <\/strong>Il\u00a0vous propose un nouveau rencard et vous laissant pantois(e). \u00a0Pas de doute, vous \u00eates victime de submarining<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Sans aucune explications de sa part sur cette absence brutale, vous vous retrouvez confront\u00e9(e) \u00e0 vous-m\u00eame. Vous \u00eates partag\u00e9(e) entre l’envie de l’envoyer balader, de demander de vraies explications fissa ou de reprendre l\u00e0 o\u00f9 vous en \u00e9tiez pour ne pas passer \u00e0 c\u00f4t\u00e9 d’une belle histoire.<\/p>\n

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Se pr\u00e9server de ces nouveaux comportements virtuels<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Mais attention \u00e0 vous prot\u00e9ger<\/strong>\u00a0de ce genre de comportement impr\u00e9visible.\u00a0Difficile d’envisager\u00a0une relation durable en sachant que votre partenaire peut dispara\u00eetre de nouveau \u00e0 tout moment. Pas de place pour la l\u00e2chet\u00e9 lors des rencontres amoureuses. L’avantage, c’est que sur les apps de rencontres, vous n’avez que l’embarras du choix, alors ne vous laissez pas embarquer dans une relation toxique.<\/p>\n

Un conseil pour \u00e9viter le submarining<\/strong> : exprimez imm\u00e9diatement vos attentes et cherchez \u00e0 savoir quelles sont celles de la personne qui vous aborde derri\u00e8re son \u00e9cran. Choisissez un site ou une app de rencontre qui correspond vraiment \u00e0 vos besoins. Plus que les apps comme Tinder, Happn etc… o\u00f9 les rencontres s’enchainent de fa\u00e7on continue et impr\u00e9visible tournez-vous vers des apps qui cible les rencontres pertinemment en fonction de vos besoins. Si vous \u00eates en couple et que vous souhaitez faire des rencontres et vous \u00e9panouir discr\u00e8tement en dehors de votre couple par exemple, c’est sur Gleeden qu’il faut aller ! Ca clarifie les choses d\u00e8s le d\u00e9but et \u00e7a permet d’\u00e9viter au maximum ce genre de comportements absurdes.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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