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\u00ab\u00a0Moi ? Jamais !\u00a0\u00bb \u00a0Voil\u00e0 ce que je me disais concernant l’infid\u00e9lit\u00e9. M\u00eame si mon couple est triste, m\u00eame si mon mari me dit que je suis quelconque, non, jamais je ne serai infid\u00e8le.<\/span><\/p>\n

Et ma vie, ma vision, a bascul\u00e9 en une fraction de seconde.<\/p>\n

Il aura simplement fallu une remarque de plus de mon mari pour que j’ouvre Google et que je tape \u00ab\u00a0Rencontres extra-conjugales\u00a0\u00bb. Pourquoi ? Je ne sais pas, une soudaine envie, un besoin d’exister. 18h00, je cr\u00e9\u00e9 mon profil. Le message est clair : \u00ab\u00a0pas d’amour, pas de sentiments, et soyez bel homme…\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n

Je passe r\u00e9cup\u00e9rer mes enfants \u00e0 l’\u00e9cole, je rentre, et je regarde sur mon t\u00e9l\u00e9phone si j’ai des messages.<\/p>\n

Plusieurs messages, je prends le premier. Cet homme me dit qu’il pourrait correspondre \u00e0 ce que je cherche. Il a un pseudo qui ne m’inspire pas, mais par politesse quand m\u00eame, je lui r\u00e9ponds. Il m’invite alors \u00e0 ouvrir son book priv\u00e9. Et l\u00e0, je chavire. Je ferme, j’ouvre \u00e0 nouveau… Mes yeux n’en reviennent pas. Je dois lui r\u00e9pondre, il attend. Je lui r\u00e9ponds alors que nous nous connaissons…et que d’ailleurs, nous venons de nous croiser… S’en suit un silence. Il doit \u00eatre surpris ! Il comprend soudain qui je suis. Oui, nous nous sommes crois\u00e9s \u00e0 l’\u00e9cole, nous nous sommes m\u00eame fait la bise, comme toujours ou presque.<\/p>\n

Cet homme, c’est le p\u00e8re du meilleur ami de mon fils, et aussi (et surtout) le mari d’une amie. Il est beau, je l’ai toujours vu, ils sont d\u00e9j\u00e0 venus d\u00eener \u00e0 la maison, il m’a toujours plu.<\/p>\n

Dilemme.<\/p>\n

Nous discutons via le tchat, jusque tard dans la nuit. Mon mari est dans le canap\u00e9 \u00e0 c\u00f4t\u00e9 de moi. C’est trop tentant, enivrant m\u00eame.\u00a0Il me drague. Cela faisait si longtemps que \u00e7a n’\u00e9tait pas si ouvertement arriv\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Le lendemain nous \u00e9changeons quelques SMS et il fait soudainement marche arri\u00e8re. Apr\u00e8s tout n’aurait-il pas raison ? Nous habitons dans le m\u00eame petit village, nos conjoints se connaissent, nous nous connaissons. La proximit\u00e9 est un risque. Mais en m\u00eame temps, il me plait beaucoup trop pour que je le laisse s’\u00e9chapper …<\/p>\n

Nous nous voyons le soir m\u00eame au d\u00e9tour d’un chemin forestier. Il m’explique pourquoi il est infid\u00e8le, je lui avoue que jamais je n’aurai pens\u00e9 que lui, moi….soyons infid\u00e8les un jour. Il m’embrasse. C’est doux, c’est bon, c’est excitant. Dix ann\u00e9es que mes l\u00e8vres n’avaient pas fr\u00f4l\u00e9es celles d’un autre. Et quel autre !<\/p>\n

Quelque jour plus tard, je le prends par surprise. Il revient d’un rendez-vous, je lui dis que je l’attends dans la chambre 107 d’un h\u00f4tel d’une ville voisine. Il vient. C’est presque \u00e9vident entre nous. Nous sommes gourmands l’un de l’autre, nos mains se cherchent, c’est exactement ce que je voulais retrouver. La fi\u00e8vre des d\u00e9buts. Nous passons une apr\u00e8s-midi ensemble. Une. Puis deux. Puis trois… puis toutes les semaines, puis plusieurs fois par semaine. Ce que c’est bon de le retrouver.<\/p>\n

Et le soir venu, nous retrouvons nos vies de familles plus sereinement, comme si d’\u00eatre infid\u00e8les nous faisait tol\u00e9rer plus facilement les difficult\u00e9s de la vie \u00e0 deux.<\/p>\n

D\u00e9borah, 39 ans, Pau, membre depuis novembre 2013<\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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