{"id":3988,"date":"2014-04-14T08:30:36","date_gmt":"2014-04-14T06:30:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/fr\/?p=3988"},"modified":"2014-04-14T08:30:36","modified_gmt":"2014-04-14T06:30:36","slug":"etre-fidele-a-99-cest-suffisant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/fr\/etre-fidele-a-99-cest-suffisant\/","title":{"rendered":"Etre fid\u00e8le \u00e0 99% ? c’est suffisant !"},"content":{"rendered":"
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J’en vois encore qui rougissent. Vous \u00eates en couple, infid\u00e8le et vous culpabilisez ? Arr\u00eatez.
\nPour commencer, si vous \u00eates d\u00e9j\u00e0 pass\u00e9 \u00e0 l’acte, la culpabilit\u00e9 n’y changera plus rien. D\u00e9barrassez vous-en, mettez-la dans un placard et jetez la cl\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Mais au fond, tel n’est pas mon propos. En 2014, \u00eatre presque fid\u00e8le suffit largement. Tant de personnes parfaitement fid\u00e8les sont incapables de rendre heureuse la personne avec laquelle elles ont choisi de passer leur vie. Bien sur, il peut y avoir de multiples raisons \u00e0 cela, mais la prison morale de la fid\u00e9lit\u00e9 en est assur\u00e9ment une.<\/p>\n

Alors lib\u00e9rez vous ! Prenez votre vie, vos r\u00eaves et vos d\u00e9sirs en main, d\u00e9barrassez vous de ces pr\u00e9jug\u00e9s moraux qu’on vous a grav\u00e9 sous la peau malgr\u00e9 vous. Respirez, rencontrez, profitez !<\/p>\n

Une fois cette \u00e9tape franchie, vous vous sentirez mieux, plus en phase avec vous m\u00eame et par l\u00e0 m\u00eame plus apte \u00e0 donner, \u00e0 \u00e9couter et \u00e0 partager. Ainsi vous rendrez celui ou celle que vous aimez r\u00e9ellement plus heureux et plus \u00e9panouie. Paradoxalement, votre couple sera plus sain.<\/p>\n

99% n’est pas 10%<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7a y est, ceux qui rougissaient tout \u00e0 l’heure se mettent \u00e0 sourire. Mais attention !
\nIl ne s’agit pas de d\u00e9coucher toutes les semaines. Si c’est la vie que vous souhaitez, pensez plut\u00f4t au c\u00e9libat. Ici il s’agit simplement de ne pas s’interdire un beau moment d’escapade extra-conjugale, pas d’oublier totalement qu’on est en couple. De toute fa\u00e7on de tels exc\u00e8s se verront. Et vous ne voulez pas que \u00e7a se voit, n’est ce pas?<\/p>\n

Sachez reconna\u00eetre les personnes avec qui ces petits \u00e9carts valent la peine. Vous verrez qu’elles ne sont pas si nombreuses et que vous n’en rencontrerez pas tr\u00e8s souvent. Par contre ce serait dommage de passer \u00e0 cot\u00e9, n’est ce pas ?<\/p>\n

Au final infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 et sinc\u00e9rit\u00e9 ne sont pas n\u00e9cessairement contradictoires et le respect de l’autre passe aussi par l’\u00e9coute de soi.<\/p>\n

Ernest H.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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