{"id":3053,"date":"2013-09-24T08:00:48","date_gmt":"2013-09-24T06:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/fr\/?p=3053"},"modified":"2013-09-24T08:00:48","modified_gmt":"2013-09-24T06:00:48","slug":"le-sms-qui-fait-le-male","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/fr\/le-sms-qui-fait-le-male\/","title":{"rendered":"Le SMS qui fait (le) m\u00e2le"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>\u00ab\u00a0Je n&rsquo;oublierai jamais le jour o\u00f9 j&rsquo;ai appris que ma femme me trompait.\u00a0\u00bb Ainsi d\u00e9bute, in medias res, le nouveau roman de Philippe Vilain publi\u00e9 cet hiver chez Grasset, plongeant avec cruaut\u00e9 le lecteur dans le m\u00eame d\u00e9sarroi et la m\u00eame stupeur que son narrateur.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Le h\u00e9ros de <i>La Femme infid\u00e8le<\/i> est un homme qui a la certitude de former un couple solide, qui loue la loyaut\u00e9 de son \u00e9pouse et qui n&rsquo;\u00e9prouve aucune d\u00e9sir d&rsquo;ind\u00e9pendance. Il \u00ab\u00a0cristallise\u00a0\u00bb, dirait Stendhal. Il aime \u00eatre avec elle, la sublime comme un personnage romanesque, lui envoie plein de textos chaque jour. Et c&rsquo;est &#8211; ironie du sort &#8211; par ce moyen de communication moderne, qu&rsquo;il tombera subitement, par hasard, de son petit nuage. Le message qui appara\u00eet sur l&rsquo;\u00e9cran du t\u00e9l\u00e9phone portable de sa ch\u00e8re et tendre, alerte magique \u00e0 l&rsquo;amour, est sans ambigu\u00eft\u00e9, comme celui qui s&rsquo;\u00e9tale sur la premi\u00e8re de couverture de l&rsquo;ouvrage: \u00ab\u00a0Je suis toute \u00e0 toi\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: justify;\"><b>Que faire? Rien<\/b><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">C&rsquo;est s\u00fbr, Philippe Vilain surfe sur un ph\u00e9nom\u00e8ne de soci\u00e9t\u00e9 bien connu des membres de Gleeden. Qui n&rsquo;a jamais \u00e9prouv\u00e9 de sueurs froides ou pire, connu de catastrophe, suite \u00e0 un message laiss\u00e9 sur le mauvais r\u00e9pondeur, \u00e0 un smartphone tonitruant qui affiche la couleur ou \u00e0 un email oubli\u00e9 dans la corbeille? Laisser le moins de traces possibles, privil\u00e9gier les mots de passe: on vous l&rsquo;a dit et r\u00e9p\u00e9t\u00e9!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">L&rsquo;originalit\u00e9 de ce roman tient au point de vue interne: on p\u00e9n\u00e8tre l&rsquo;esprit d&rsquo;un homme qui se d\u00e9couvre tromp\u00e9. L\u00e0 o\u00f9 seraient attendus les lamentations et l&rsquo;orgueil du m\u00e2le d\u00e9virilis\u00e9, \u00e9clats de voix, d\u00e9monstrations de pouvoir, prise en faute humiliante, on d\u00e9couvre un univers plus subtil. L&rsquo;homme ne dit rien, il se contente d&rsquo;observer attentivement sa femme. Mieux, il r\u00e9apprend \u00e0 la conna\u00eetre et cherche \u00e0 percer le myst\u00e8re de sa personnalit\u00e9. Son introspection explore ainsi les m\u00e9andres de leur histoire, le \u00ab\u00a0roman de leur couple\u00a0\u00bb, cette part de construction imaginaire, falsifi\u00e9e, qui est le lot de toute rencontre. De mani\u00e8re voyeuriste, il se perd aussi dans l&rsquo;observation du mensonge, ce jeu social pratiqu\u00e9 par son \u00e9pouse, la fascinante Morgan Lorenz.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Il franchit diverses \u00e9tapes: col\u00e8re, incompr\u00e9hension, retour de flamme, acception, doute&#8230; L&rsquo;\u00e9criture est fluide et famili\u00e8re, quasi automatique, comme si elle donnait acc\u00e8s au flux des pens\u00e9es qui traversent un \u00eatre face \u00e0 un \u00e9v\u00e9nement traumatique.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Le choix du silence sauvera-t-il ce couple? Et si finalement tout \u00e7a n&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas si grave? Et si l&rsquo;important r\u00e9sidait dans le r\u00e9veil des sens et des \u00e9motions?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ecrit par\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/fr\/tag\/lola-vs\/\">LOLA VS<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Philippe Vilain a publi\u00e9 chez Grasset <i>Faux-p\u00e8re<\/i> (2008), <i>Confession d&rsquo;un timide<\/i> (2010) et <i>Pas son genre<\/i> (2011)<i> La femme infid\u00e8le<\/i> (2013)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00ab\u00a0Je n&rsquo;oublierai jamais le jour o\u00f9 j&rsquo;ai appris que ma femme me trompait.\u00a0\u00bb Ainsi d\u00e9bute, in medias res, le nouveau roman de Philippe Vilain publi\u00e9 cet hiver chez Grasset, plongeant avec cruaut\u00e9 le lecteur dans le m\u00eame d\u00e9sarroi et 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