{"id":7012,"date":"2020-09-08T09:00:26","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T09:00:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/en\/?p=7012"},"modified":"2020-09-22T14:49:29","modified_gmt":"2020-09-22T14:49:29","slug":"sorry-not-sorry-but-this-aint-gonna-work-red-flags-you-shouldnt-ignore-when-dating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.gleeden.com\/en\/sorry-not-sorry-but-this-aint-gonna-work-red-flags-you-shouldnt-ignore-when-dating\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cSorry not sorry, but this ain\u2019t gonna work!\u201d: Red flags you shouldn\u2019t ignore when dating"},"content":{"rendered":"

What if you could predict if your partner is actually the right one for you? All you need is to pay attention to some subtle, yet essential, red flags\u2026 <\/h2>\n

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Let\u2019s be honest. Relationships are complicated. No matter how good it feels, you can never really know what to expect next. But what if you could, somehow, foresee the future? What if you could predict if your partner is actually the right one for you? Well, while you don\u2019t have superpowers to read someone\u2019s mind, still, there\u2019s a way to know if he\/she is worthy, or not, of your time. All you need is to pay attention to some subtle, yet essential, red flags\u2026 <\/p>\n

Look, nobody is perfect, and sometimes in order to make the relationship work you need to find compromises or simply accept your partner for who they are. However, some behaviors are such big red flags that you shouldn\u2019t ignore, not even in front of the person of your dreams! Often, especially with someone we really like, we tend to ignore \u2018little things\u2019 that make us upset, believing that it\u2019s nothing to worry about. Or perhaps, we live the relationship completely unaware of what is really going on, living an illusion until being caught by bad surprises. <\/p>\n

Now, let\u2019s be straightforward: people reveal themselves slowly. Yet, the very early stage of your relationship can tell you a lot about the person you\u2019re dating. To save you time, energy, and obviously lots of tears, we\u2019ve prepared a list of situations you should not underestimate if you really want to avoid disappointments and, obviously, heartbreaks. So, keep on reading! <\/p>\n

1. They give you too many compliments <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

He\/she\u2019s really nice and makes you feel special giving you lots of compliments. Well, maybe too many compliments. Having someone obsessed with you may sound cool, initially. But in reality, is actually kinda creepy. If you\u2019ve experienced something like this, you should also know that their admiration may not be totally real. Partners who are excessively enthusiastic about you are usually creating the image of an \u2018ideal relationship\u2019 which will suddenly disappear as soon as things don\u2019t go according to their expectations. When this happens, be ready for the worse! <\/p>\n

2. They talk too bad of their ex <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

Yeah, ex-partners are certainly not the best, and talking bad of them can be normal. However, if your partner keeps blaming them for everything bad happened, that\u2019s a clear red flag you shouldn\u2019t ignore. Why? Well, simply because it reveals they\u2019re unable to assume their own responsibilities. After all it is not always only once fault! <\/p>\n

3. They are mean to their family <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

Having problems with the family is quite common. Being mean and disrespectful shouldn\u2019t be an option. If you notice a lack of respect and manner with parents or any other close member of the family, take a big step back. You don\u2019t want to build a family with someone like this, do ya? <\/p>\n

4. They cheated on their ex with You <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

This one probably does not even need any explanations. If they cheated on their ex to end up with you, stay in alert, the next one could be you! <\/p>\n

5. They want your passwords <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

Wait, what? Being in a healthy relationship means to live together while maintaining your personal privacy. And if your partner doesn\u2019t get this, that\u2019s certainly a big No-No. <\/p>\n

6. They don\u2019t like to praise you <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

Having a partner who is supportive is vital for a good relationship and your own happiness. If you\u2019ve realized that your partner tends to be unsupportive or even to diminish your personality and your choices, chances are that you are with the wrong person. Have a little think and consider if you really want to be with someone who won\u2019t really be part of your achievements. <\/p>\n

7. They are never sorry <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

Arguments and misunderstandings are part of the relationships. So is apologizing. If your partner is never sorry, it means that they\u2019re unable to see outside their vision. In the long term, this will cause further issues and will leave you to deal with someone who does not really care about your opinion, nor your feelings. Try to find compromises, if this doesn\u2019t work, raise your heels and bye-bye! <\/p>\n

8. They try to change you <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n

As mentioned above, maintaining your personal life and your personal integrity is essential in a happy relationship. However, some people tend to push their partners to change, in order to obtain what\u2019s really their type. This can be in many different ways. Whether is body shape, style, hobbies, or even a job or friends. What\u2019s for sure is that if something like this happens, the only thing left to change is nothing but your partner! <\/p>\n

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Read also: SOS! How to deal with a flirty BF<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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